For many people, the beginning of a new year brings a mixture of hope, reflection and sometimes difficult realisations. When a relationship has been under strain for a long time, the quiet days after Christmas can surface questions that have been pushed aside during the busy months before.
At Dillon Solicitors, we understand just how heavy that emotional burden can feel. No one makes the decision lightly. And no one should have to navigate it alone.
Why Christmas Can Be a Turning Point
Every year, family solicitors see a rise in enquiries during January. Not because people rush into decisions, but because they spend the Christmas period trying to keep things as peaceful and magical as possible – especially when there are children involved.
Many choose to “get through Christmas first” to avoid upsetting children or creating tensions during family gatherings. While this can be an act of kindness and protection, these weeks also bring long moments of reflection. The contrast between how things are and how you had hoped they would be becomes clearer. You might find yourself looking back on the year and recognising how much emotional weight you’ve been carrying.
Then January arrives…a natural moment for setting goals, reassessing your wellbeing and thinking about the future. It’s very common for people to ask themselves: What do I want my life to look like this time next year?
What needs to change for my happiness, stability and the wellbeing of my children?
If you are asking those questions now, you are far from alone.
You Are Not Making a Decision – You Are Gathering Information
Thinking about separation does not require you to act immediately. It does not mean you have already decided to leave. And it certainly does not mean you are “giving up”. Often, the kindest first step you can take – for yourself and your family – is simply to understand your options. Knowing the legal process, the financial considerations and the arrangements for children can remove much of the fear and uncertainty.
An initial consultation with a family law solicitor is not a commitment to proceed. It is an opportunity to:
- Learn what separation or divorce might look like for your situation
- Ask questions freely and confidentially
- Understand the practical steps involved, if and when you feel ready
- Explore what supports are available to help you manage the transition
- Bring clarity to a decision you may have been struggling with for months or years
At Dillon Solicitors, we are known for our compassion, discretion and genuine care for the people who come to us – values that sit at the heart of everything we do. Our team understands that people often seek advice at the most vulnerable time in their lives, and we work sensitively and respectfully to support them through it.
New Year, New Possibilities
While separation is undeniably difficult, it can also mark the beginning of a new chapter – one defined by stability, peace, confidence and hope. Many clients tell us that the hardest part was the period before they sought advice. Once they understood the process, the unknowns became less frightening and the road ahead felt more manageable. A fresh start doesn’t happen overnight, and it shouldn’t have to. But it can begin with a single conversation.
As 2026 begins, you may be thinking about the year ahead – your wellbeing, your children, your independence, your financial security, or simply the kind of life you want to build next. Taking time to understand your rights and options is a positive and empowering act, no matter what you ultimately decide.
How We Can Help
Dillon Solicitors have over 30 years’ experience supporting individuals and families through separation and divorce. Our family law team is approachable, empathetic and highly skilled in guiding people through every step of the journey. You are not expected to have all the answers. You don’t need to make any decisions today. And you certainly don’t have to navigate this alone.
Take the First Step – When You’re Ready
If you are considering separation, or simply feeling overwhelmed and unsure, a confidential initial appointment can help bring clarity and reassurance. There is no pressure, no obligation and no judgment. Just professional support from a team who truly puts clients first. To arrange a conversation with one of our family law solicitors, please get in touch. We’re here to listen, to guide and to help you make informed choices about your future – whenever the time is right for you.
Call us on +353 (0)1 296 0666, email info@dillion.ie or come and see us at our office in Nutgrove Office Park, Rathfarnham.
