For many families, the long summer holidays are filled with trips away, days out, and time together. While this can be a chance to reconnect, it can also bring underlying tensions to the surface. Extra time at home, financial pressures from holidays, and the challenge of entertaining children for weeks on end can place relationships under real strain.
It is not unusual for couples who were already experiencing difficulties to find that the summer intensifies existing issues. Some people even see the holiday as a final chance to “make things work”, only to realise that the problems are deeper than expected.
Why September Brings a Spike in Divorce Enquiries
Family solicitors often see a rise in divorce and separation enquiries every September. There are several reasons why this happens:
- Putting children first: Many parents choose to “see the summer through” for the sake of the children, waiting until the school year begins before taking the next steps.
- A final family holiday: Some couples take one last trip together to see if a change of scenery will help. When it doesn’t, the return to normal life makes the reality clearer.
- New routines, new decisions: The start of a new school year can feel like a natural time for families to make big life decisions. Once children are settled back into routine, parents may feel it is the right moment to address relationship difficulties.
- Practical considerations: September often brings fresh focus after the slower summer months. With work, school and normal routines resuming, couples may feel ready to seek legal advice.
Taking the First Step Towards Separation or Divorce
Deciding to separate or divorce is never easy. It can feel overwhelming to know where to begin, especially when children and shared assets are involved. At Dillon Solicitors, we encourage anyone in this position to seek early advice.
An initial confidential appointment with one of our experienced family law solicitors can help you:
- Understand the difference between separation and divorce in Ireland
- Explore options for child custody and access arrangements
- Learn how finances, property and pensions may be divided
- Consider whether mediation could be an option for your situation
- Get reassurance on the steps ahead, even if you are not ready to make a final decision yet
Supporting Children Through Divorce and Separation
For many parents, the biggest concern is how divorce will affect their children. September can already be a time of adjustment with new teachers, new classes, or even a new school. The idea of adding a separation on top of that may feel daunting.
Our family law team takes a child-focused approach, aiming to minimise disruption and stress. We work with parents to create clear, practical custody and access arrangements that put children’s needs first. By establishing structure early, families can ease the transition and give children stability during a difficult time.
Life After Divorce – A Fresh Start
While the decision to separate can feel like the end of something, it is also the beginning of a new chapter. September, with its sense of new starts and fresh routines, can be the right moment to take the first step towards building a healthier future for yourself and your family.
At Dillon Solicitors, we believe in supporting clients not just through the legal process, but also in helping them look ahead. Divorce and separation are challenging, but with the right guidance, they can also be an opportunity to reset, rebuild and move forward.
Speak to Our Family Law Team in Confidence
If you are considering divorce or separation, or you would like advice on child custody arrangements, our experienced family law solicitors are here to help. We understand that taking the first step can feel daunting, but speaking to a professional can give you clarity and confidence.
Contact Dillon Solicitors today for a confidential initial advice appointment. We are here with empathy, expertise and clear guidance – every step of the way.
